http://news.stanford.edu/news/2014/january/meaningful-happy-life-010114.html
A Stanford research project explored the key
differences between lives of happiness and meaningfulness. While the two
are similar, dramatic differences exist – and one should not
underestimate the power of meaningfulness. "The quest for meaning is a
key part of what makes us human," the researchers concluded.
By Clifton B. Parker
While lives of meaningfulness and happiness overlap, they are distinctly different, according to Stanford research.
In a study published in the
Journal of Positive Psychology,
Jennifer Aaker
of Stanford Graduate School of Business, along with colleagues, found
answers about life in how people spend their time and what experiences
they cultivate.
"Happiness was linked to being a taker rather than a giver, whereas
meaningfulness went with being a giver rather than a taker," Aaker said.
The researchers surveyed 397 people over a month-long period,
examining whether people thought their lives were meaningful or happy,
as well as their choices, beliefs and values. They found five key
differences between meaningfulness and happiness:
• Getting what you want and need: While satisfying
desires was a reliable source of happiness, it had nothing to do with a
sense of meaning. For example, healthy people are happier than sick
people, but the lives of sick people do not lack meaning.
• Past, present and future: Happiness is about the
present, and meaning is about linking the past, present and future. When
people spend time thinking about the future or past, the more
meaningful, and less happy, their lives become. On the other hand, if
people think about the here and now, they are happier.
• Social life: Connections to other people are
important both for meaning and happiness. But the nature of those
relationships is how they differ. Deep relationships – such as family –
increase meaning, while spending time with friends may increase
happiness but had little effect on meaning. Time with loved ones
involves hashing out problems or challenges, while time with friends may
simply foster good feelings without much responsibility.
• Struggles and stresses: Highly meaningful lives
encounter lots of negative events and issues, which can result in
unhappiness. Raising children can be joyful but it is also connected to
high stress – thus meaningfulness – and not always happiness. While the
lack of stress may make one happier – like when people retire and no
longer have the pressure of work demands – meaningfulness drops.
• Self and personal identity: If happiness is about
getting what you want, then meaningfulness is about expressing and
defining yourself. A life of meaning is more deeply tied to a valued
sense of self and one's purpose in the larger context of life and
community.
One can find meaning in life and be unhappy at the same time.
Aaker points out that this type of life has received less attention
in the media, which has recently focused on how to cultivate the happy
life. Examples of highly meaningful, but not necessarily happy, lives
may include nursing, social work or even activism.
The unhappy but meaningful life involves difficult
undertakings and can be characterized by stress, struggle and
challenges. However, while sometimes unhappy in the moment, these people
– connected to a larger sense of purpose and value – make positive
contributions to society.
Happiness without meaning is characterized by a relatively shallow
and often self-oriented life, in which things go well, needs and desires
are easily satisfied, and difficult or taxing entanglements are
avoided, the report noted.
And so, the meaningful life guides actions from the past through the
present to the future, giving one a sense of direction. It offers ways
to value good and bad alike, and gives us justifications for our
aspirations. From achieving our goals to regarding ourselves in a
positive light, a life of meaningfulness is considerably different than
mere happiness.
"People have strong inner desires that shape their lives with purpose
and focus – qualities that ultimately make for a uniquely human
experience," said Aaker.
The research team included Roy Baumeister at Florida State
University, Kathleen Vohs at the University of Minnesota and Stanford
doctoral student Emily Garbinsky.
